Bangalore has some of the best Pubs and Breweries in the country and Idea of hanging out in Bangalore is really not complete without visiting many of these famous places.
So its obvious that my female persona also gets a chance from time and again to visit these places. So one day I had to meet a friend at Indiranagar 100ft road , we really had not decided where to go, so planned to meet up at Sony world signal a popular land mark on the road. Once we met up there We were wondering where to go and ended up going to a popular Pub , Co-incidentally it was a Ladies Night that evening and I got free entry ( as a lady that I was) !! Yay!! not just that, once inside we were offered special prices on select drinks too.. Now that makes you feel special. So I was enjoying my ladies night, me and my friend got talking for hours, polished a few beers and cocktails and then it was time for me to use the rest room, I was a little apprehensive as it being a ladies night the queue outside the ladies room was quiet long.. So while I was waiting in the queue , the girl standing next to me glanced at me and said “You look so pretty” and i smiled back at her and said “thank you, You made my day!” and indeed she did! Its a feeling which is hard to describe. Its a feeling of my femininity being recognized or acknowledge.. Its in sort a validation that my female person which has been snubbed for so many years has suddenly been acknowledged.
Its small moments like these that a Cross-dresser Like me craves for the most!
….That one woman who mistook me for a real woman, that sweet comment from a stranger, that friendly smile, that gesture of opening the door for me…or showing chivalry in some way and so on… these small moments gives me validation that some one has seen that girl in me that I am trying to present and reacted in accordance.. So yes this was an interesting outing one that will stay with me for long….
A Night where the Lady in me was acknowledged! It was My night .It was My Ladies night!!